Dating With Genital Herpes

When a person is diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease, it is important to learn the necessary treatment plans, methods used to prevent transmission as well as general information about how the disease or virus affects the body. This information will help the infected person understand how the disease or virus changes how and if he can engage in sexual activity in the future.
Step One
Be open and honest. Determine the appropriate time to disclose your diagnosis to romantic and/or sexual partners. Full disclosure concerning the disease as well as relevant information regarding your condition and treatment plan is strongly encouraged prior to any sexual contact, including oral and anal sex. You may have to provide information about the disease. Be prepared to answer general questions about transmission and prevention methods.
Step Two
Explain the risk. Be prepared to answer general questions about transmission and prevention methods. Explain that you are able to engage in sexual activity as long as a condom is worn from start to finish. Medical science has proven that the herpes virus cannot pass through a latex condom. It can, however, be transmitted to areas that are not protected, including the mouth.Ask your sexual partner to discuss his concerns.
Step Three
Use protection. Speak with your physician about a preferred method of contraception. Regardless of the brand or type of condom that is used, it is important to use a condom whenever there is direct physical contact between the infected and another sexual party. Patients are encouraged to use a condom even when symptoms, or an outbreak, has not occured, as the herpes virus can be spread any time there is direct physical contact.
Step Four
Build a social network. Join a dating community organised specifically for singles diagnosed with the Herpes virus. Herpes dating groups provide free profile services, resources and educational reading materials, and answers to frequently asked questions and concerns.
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